Patriarchy
My goal is to convince men to ally with radical feminists. Because I'm a man however, I'm often asked: why radical feminism?
If we accept the goal of politics to be helping others, as I do, then we must ask: who needs the most help?
The point is made statistically; in contrast to males, females are born in to:
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Significantly lower pay, and lower total lifetime earnings 1
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Lower social status 2
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Less access to social supports and programs 3
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Decreased access to education 4
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Reduced access to political power 5
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Increased rates of verbal abuse and sexualized threats of violence, on social media 6
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Overwhelmingly higher amounts of targeted violence 7
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Date rape, marital rape, and "corrective" rape 8
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Forced marriage 9
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Significantly higher rates of modern-day enslavement 10
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Ritualistic mutilation, including foot binding and genital mutilation 11
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Ritualistic murder, including suttee and "honour" killings 12
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Modern-day witch hunts 13
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Being murdered at birth because they are female, and other forms of femicide 14
The observations above are based on statistical investigations. This means they are mathematically determined representations of the world as it is, and true irrespective of political interpretations. 15 In other words none of this is based on personal feelings or choices, because baby girls have no control over their lives, and human society attacks them from birth merely because they are girls. 16
Knowing these facts, and knowing also that no person chooses rape or witch hunts for themselves, we see beyond any shadow of a doubt that females suffer rampant and incessant oppression because they are females. Proportionate to this, if we claim to be concerned about the welfare of others but our analysis does not lead directly to the conclusion that women are oppressed, that's a sure sign the analysis is deeply flawed.
It's striking to realize that all statements above are plain facts, yet radical feminism is the only system of thought to recognize these oppressions as such while also working to eradicate them, instead of making reforms that maintain the system of oppression, namely: patriarchy.
Notably, while it's true that men are horribly oppressed by other men, what matters here is that men as a group do not endure sex-based oppression. 17 The oppressions listed above do not exist for males as a sex-based class; as Marilyn Frye observed:
Women are oppressed, as women. Members of certain racial and/or economic groups and classes, both the males and the females, are oppressed as members of those races and/or classes. But men are not oppressed as men. 18
Instead, the only connection men have to sex-based oppression is to stop causing it. 19
To be clear: the problem is not “man” as a biological entity, but “man” in his patriarchal social form. Proof of this is straightforward enough, as patriarchy is only a few thousand years old, and prior to the rise of patriarchy we find no evidence to suggest the world attacked females merely because they were females. 20 Thus the problem is the system we are all born into, because that system grooms boys to become men whose behaviour reproduces rape, witch hunts, and the other horrors listed above.
So if the purpose of politics is to help others and in particular those who need it most, the question isn't why am I an ally to radical feminists, it's: why aren't all men their allies? The answer is because men instituted and institutionalized all of the abuses listed above, and patriarchy does not teach men to reduce male power by restraining male violence, but quite the opposite.
Moreover, radical feminism seeks to eradicate patriarchal abuses going well beyond the brief list above, and one of those abuses is porn — and while men across the political spectrum may disagree on patriarchal minutiae, if there's one thing all patriarchs agree on, it's that they love porn. 21
→ Next blog in this series: Pornography
ENDNOTES
1. See: (i) Institute for Women's Policy Research - Pay Equity & Discrimination,(ii) Pay Scale - The State Of The Gender Pay Gap 2020,(iii) World Bank - Globally, Countries Lose $160 Trillion in Wealth Due to Earnings Gaps Between Women and Men,(iv) Our World In Data - Economic inequality by gender,(v) OECD - Gender wage gap.
2. See: (i) American Psychological Association - Women & Socioeconomic Status,(ii) Harvard Business School - Gender, social class, and women’s employment,(iii) JICA - Why do women tend to have lower status than men?,(iv) UN Women - Economic Empowerment.
3. See: (i) Canadian Women - The Facts about Women and Poverty in Canada,(ii) Homeless Hub - Single Women,(iii) National Center for Biotechnology Information - Social support for women of reproductive age and its predictors,(iv) We Forum - Why are women more depressed than men?.
4. See: (i) Un Women - Commission On the Status of Women 2012,(ii) Unesco - Women's Day 2014,(iii) Unicef - Meeting our commitments to gender equality in education,(iv) World Bank - Girls' Education,(v) The Guardian - Educating girls: the key to tackling global poverty.
5. See: (i) Un Women - Facts and figures: Leadership and political participation,(ii) We Forum - How do we get more women in politics?,(iii) Open Text - Women in Power and Decisionmaking,(iv) PEW - Number of women leaders around the world has grown, but they're still a small group,(v) Taylor and Francis Online - Democracy, Representation, and Women: A Comparative Analysis,(vi) Women Deliver - Why Women in Politics?.
6. See: (i) AI - Toxic Twitter - Women's Experiences of Violence and Abuse on Twitter,(ii) NNEDV - Recognizing and Combating Technology-Facilitated Abuse,(iii) AI - Amnesty reveals alarming impact of online abuse against women,(iv) The Everyday Sexism Project.
7. See: (i) Un Women - Facts and figures: Ending violence against women ,(ii) WHO - Violence against women,(iii) Canadian Women - The Facts about Gender-Based Violence,(iv) UN - Violence against women,(v) 'How to Control Your Woman' Was Googled 165 Million Times in 2020 Amid Covid-19 Pandemic,(vi) Pakistan: Outpouring of anger after woman assaulted by over 400 men.
8. See: (i) Equality Now - The Global Rape Epidemic,(ii) WHO - Sexual violence,(iii) Action Aid - Hate crimes: The rise of 'corrective' rapein South Africa,(iv) Violence Against Women & Girls - Brief on Violence Against Sexual and Gender Minority Women,(v) UN Women - Facts and figures: Ending violence against women.
9. See: (i) UN - Ending Forced Marriage Worldwide,(ii) World Vision - Child marriage: Facts and how to help,(iii) Government of Canada - Child, early and forced marriage,(iv) Girls Not Brides,(v) UNICEF - Child marriage.
10. See: (i) Walk Free - Stacked Odds,(ii) With 40 Million Forced into Modern Slavery, Third Committee Expert Urges States to Protect Rights of Women, Girls, Companies Must Remedy Violations,(iii) The Human Faces of Modern Slavery,(iv) Nearly half of women, girls ‘do not own their bodies’, UN says.
11. See: (i) WHO - Female genital mutilation (FGM),(ii) Unicef - Female genital mutilation (FGM),(iii) UN Population Fund - Female genital mutilation,(iv) World Bank - Female Genital Mutilation is still practiced around the world,(v) UN - Female Genital Mutilation costs $1.4 billion annually.
12. See: (i) Amnesty International USA - Honor Killings,(ii) Government of Canada - Preliminary Examination of so-called "Honour Killings" in Canada,(iii) UN - HONOUR KILLINGS AND THE QUEST FOR JUSTICE IN BLACK AND MINORITY ETHNIC COMMUNITIES IN THE UK,(iv) UN Women - Defining “honour”crimes and “honour” killings.
13. See: (i) KBIA - Global Journalist: India's Witch Hunts,(ii) Scientific American - Witch Hunts Today: Abuse of Women, Superstition and Murder Collide in India,(iii) The Guardian - Five women killed in India by villagers suspecting witchcraft,(iv) Sage Journals - Witchcraft Accusations and Female Homicide Victimization in Contemporary Ghana,(v) The Guardian - From Circe to Clinton: why powerful women are cast as witches.
14. See: (i) Femicide In Canada,(ii) The Global Americans - Femicide and International Women’s Rights,(iii) WHO - Understanding and addressing violence against women,(iv) UN - Amid Rising Femicide, Proportion of Women Killed Grows as Overall Murder Rates Fall, Deputy Secretary-General Tells Spotlight Initiative Event,(v) Femicide Watch,(vi) UNFPA: Against My Will.
15. It is noteworthy that many of the statistics cited above were developed by organizations which are controlled by men. Thus, a wide range of observations prepared by men (who we have no reason to believe are feminist allies) clearly demonstrate the sex-based oppression of women by men. This notwithstanding, there will always be questions about methodology, selection, and bias. In this case, the phenomena are studied with broad sample sizes and the conclusions are restricted to high-level assertions; as sure as the sky is blue, women are oppressed by men. Also note that all references above come from mainstream organizations, not radical feminist sources, meaning these sources are not moved by radical feminist theory. Remarkably, though these sources are not radfem, taken together they lead to radfem conclusions. But please be sure to satisfy any questions you may have, by digging in to the references above. (Alternatively, if you haven't got time to dig across multiple sites, try The WomanStats Project as a starting point.)
If you are looking for specifically radfem references here, see Vancouver Rape Relief - Stats about Sexual Assault and the Canadian Criminal Justice System, and these comments on opting in/out of sex-based oppression from Raquel Rosario Sanchez, and this Twitter thread from Doctor Jess Taylor which notes “Globally, men commit 97-99% of all violent crimes (murder, rape, trafficking, assaults, child sexual abuse, exploitation)” as well as this related infographic. As Gloria Steinem summarized it, “If you add up all the forms of gynocide, from female infanticide and genital mutilation to so-called honor crimes, sex trafficking, and domestic abuse, everything, we lose about 6 million humans every year just because they were born female. That’s a holocaust every year” (Gloria Steinem interview, 5 December 2006).
16. Here, men often respond that women commit crime too, so what about their offenses? This is an important question, so let us ask: what factors are at the root of female criminal behaviour, and how are they distinct from factors that drive male criminal behaviour? Whereas it is commonly accepted that underprivileged men's and women's crimes are driven by a lack of access to education, employment, and meaningful participation in society, research shows a key factor for women is that most female young offenders are likely to have been abused by a family member or someone they trust.
17. See 37 questions to prove that systemic misandry doesn’t exist anywhere in the world.
18. The Politics of Reality: Essays in Feminist Theory (1983), Marilyn Frye, page 16.
19. On this point, Sarah Grimké remarked: “All I ask of our brethren is, that they will take their feet from our necks, and permit us to stand upright”.
20. See The Creation of Patriarchy by Gerda Lerner, as well as Sisters in Spirit by Sally Roesch Wagner which notes that rape and male violence against women were exceptionally uncommon in aboriginal North American cultures (before they were colonized).
21. Note the distinction: the word “patriarchs” is used here instead of “men”, because the problem is misogynistic men who sustain patriarchy (and the problem is not “man” as a biological entity).
SUPPLEMENTARY
α - This blog's title image depicts King Hammurabi of Babylon (ca. 1800 BCE) who promulgated the first recorded legal system in the West — a vicious and misogynistic code that defined women as men's property and designated rape to be a property crime, thereby formalizing misogyny as jurisprudence.
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